Discover why what you focus on you feel

coaching leadership Apr 29, 2023
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Introduction

So what is neuroscience? Neuroscience is the study of the brain, how it works and how to improve its functions. In coaching, we use neuroscience to help you understand why you feel what you do and how to change that feeling into something more positive.
Why focus on what you feel? Because your feelings are the result of your thoughts! If I tell myself "I'm not good enough" over and over again, then eventually my brain starts believing this statement as true. The same goes for positive affirmations: saying things like "I am confident" or "I love myself no matter what happens" will make those statements become true because they're programmed into our subconscious mind through repetition (and repetition).

The Power of Neuroplasticity

Neuroplasticity is the ability of your brain to change, grow and adapt. It's how you learn new skills, develop new habits and even recover from injuries.
When we focus on something--whether it's a goal or something we want to avoid--we feel it in our bodies as well as our minds. Our bodies respond with increased heart rate, sweating palms and butterflies in our stomachs when we think about something stressful or exciting (or both). This can help us reach our goals by keeping us motivated but it can also hold us back if we're focusing too much on negative things that keep us stuck in old patterns of behavior.

The Neuroscience of Goals

The neuroscience of goals is a powerful tool for achieving your goals. When you set SMART goals, you are creating a plan for your life and focusing on what you want to achieve. This can help you reach your full potential as an individual and improve the quality of your life.
The first step in setting SMART goals is to write down what it is that you want to achieve in as much detail as possible. Be specific about what exactly it is that will make this goal worth achieving--for example "I want to be able to run 5 miles" rather than "I want to get fit." Next, break down each goal into smaller chunks so that they're easier for yourself or others (if applicable) to follow through with over time: In this case we might say something like "I'll start by running 1 mile every other day until I'm ready for two." Finally add some time constraints so that there's no doubt when each phase should end: In our example above this would mean saying something like "In 6 months' time I'll complete my first 5k race!".

The Neuroscience of Motivation

The Neuroscience of Motivation
In order to reach your goals, you need to be motivated. But how do you get yourself motivated? How can you keep yourself on track when the going gets tough?
The answer lies in understanding how your brain works and what triggers your motivation. Neuroscientists have found that the key is positive reinforcement--rewarding yourself with something that makes you feel good when reaching a goal or taking action towards it. This can be as simple as rewarding yourself with a treat after completing an assignment or going for a run, but it can also be something more complex like taking time off work so that all of your energy goes into achieving success instead of being distracted by other things (which will make it easier for us later on).

The Neuroscience of Emotional Intelligence

The neuroscience of emotional intelligence is a powerful tool for self-awareness. It's also important to understand the power of empathy, which is something that many people struggle with.
Emotional regulation is another crucial skill to develop if you want to reach your goals. Emotions can be like waves: they come and go, but can also be controlled by focusing on positive thoughts instead of negative ones.

The Neuroscience of Stress Management

Stress is a normal part of life, but it can be harmful if you don't manage it properly. The good news is that neuroscience has revealed some strategies for managing stress that can help you feel better and get more done.

Mindfulness: Mindfulness is a technique for focusing your attention on the present moment without judgment or analysis. When you're mindful, you're aware of what's happening around you without getting caught up in thoughts about the past or future--you simply notice things as they happen without attaching any other meaning to them than what they are right now (e.g., this cup of coffee tastes good). Studies have shown that mindfulness reduces stress levels and improves mental health over time by reducing negative emotions like anger and anxiety while boosting positive ones like joy and compassion.* Understanding Stress Triggers: It's important to know what causes your body chemistry (and therefore your mood) to go haywire when under pressure so that these triggers can be avoided whenever possible.* Using Neuroscience To Manage Stress: Neuroscience reveals some interesting ways we may be able to use our brains' natural abilities against themselves when dealing with stressful situations.

The Neuroscience of Learning

Neuroscience has a lot to say about the process of learning. One thing it reveals is that practice is key, but not just any practice. In order to really learn something, you need feedback on your performance so you can adjust and improve. This is why many people find it difficult to learn a new language or musical instrument: they don't have anyone who can provide them with useful feedback on their progress.
When we're learning something new, our brains form new connections between neurons (nerve cells) in order for us to make sense of whatever we're doing--and if those connections aren't reinforced through repetition or other forms of reinforcement, they will eventually fade away again! So if you want your brainpower working hard toward achieving goals instead of thinking about things like your next holiday, then consider finding ways that help reinforce these neural pathways through daily practice sessions focused on specific skill sets needed for success in each area.

The Neuroscience of Interpersonal Communication

This is an important skill for you to understand because you may not be aware of how your actions are perceived by others or how those perceptions affect your ability to achieve your goals.

Role-playing: Role-playing is a great way to help people become more aware of how others see them, especially when it comes to communicating with others in a professional setting. By role-playing scenarios that might occur in real life (for example, negotiating a pay rise), you can help you practice saying no or asking questions without feeling embarrassed or awkward about it.

Conclusion

You can use neuroscience to your advantage. Neuroscience is the study of the brain and how it works, and it's an important tool for leaders to have in their toolbox. It can help you understand what motivates people, why they behave the way they do, and how to tap into their potential.
It's important to note that neuroscience isn't just about understanding what makes us tick--it also helps us understand how we feel when we're working toward our goals. For example: if someone has a fear of public speaking but wants to get over it so they can give presentations at work or speak up during meetings, then focusing on how nervous they feel will likely make them feel even more nervous! Instead of focusing on those feelings (which aren't helpful), you can focus on positive emotions like excitement or confidence instead--these are much better ways of approaching any new challenge!

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